Aita for telling my ex wife she can deal with update

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Aita for telling my ex wife she can deal with update. I told my ex-wife I didn't care if her and her family starve when she tried to convince me to help her now that they are struggling. I immediately comforted her and "You were so close " blurted out. 1K votes, 401 comments. My son's wife had a daughter when they got together. ADMIN MOD. We divorced 7 years ago. She really didn't want to get pregnant. Had a guy tell me up and down how hprrible his ex wife was, how she was abusive, cheated on him, spent his money, totally irresponsible, and didn't want kids because of her childhood trauma, etc. Co-parenting with an ex is tricky no matter what, but it's extra complicated when your relationship was full-on volatile. I mean I know that people can gossip and talk amongst friends about other people and I am guilty of that too but I got very upset when my gf (f32) started talking about my ex wife (f42). Talked with G last night. She will be sentenced this week and is looking toward a long term because this is not her first time caught dealing. The rods and pre workout didn’t go to her family, it went to her affair partner. She wasn’t in my home. About 2 years into our marriage, we started trying to a baby but no luck. AITA for telling my daughter she sabotaged herself? Asshole POO Mode. We live on the east coast in a two bedroom small house, COL here is insane. But GF's lease is up at the end of April so she needed LittleBear1053. They feel I don't care and am showing lack of interest in his education and future. 15 years went down the drain because I was in a car crash. Help keep the sub engaging! ADMIN. During the funeral service, I reached out and held my ex-husband's hand for support, which seemed natural given the circumstances. She has a list of chores for the kids to complete weekly before Saturday Practical_Special365. We both make decent money, but with the cost of ADMIN MOD. me (m23) and my wife (f22) got married 2 months ago, she moved 100 miles away from her family and friends to live with me in my city. No_Payment4096. UPDATE: AITA for kicking out my parents for never telling me about my half-sister. That's the first thing I did, I went to their place and I tried to talk to them. AITA For telling my wife to never volunteer me to help her family again. Both of us are now remarried but we maintain a good relationship for our kids and because we do like each other. AITA for telling my wife to stop being a jealous bitch. She always talked about how it was her dream for me to get married wearing her dress or at least her veil. Or alter the time she spends with her dad to be just her and her dad. He said my wife wouldn't host them at our house because the only time she slept was when he did and still he had to entertain them exhausted when he was awake. Mar 15, 2024 | 11:31 AM. Mate, your TOTAL lack of self-awareness is going to alienate your wife and ruin your marriage. Maybe i'm an asshole as i'm putting my work above my stepson. There are things I need to address, so I’ll do that now before I get into what’s been happening since that post. Earlier today, My ex contacted me and asked about the bday cancellation. The monthly payments for the house will be more than our rent so I’ll have to cover the difference as my wife can’t pay more. Thanksgiving is a varietal feast of some pretty basic foods — there’s gotta be something you can enjoy or at least tolerate. So I’ve (m38) been divorced from my ex wife (f35) for 10 years. AITA For telling my wife to work more if she wants to help her sister financially. We divorced because Jim was a bad husband and All gold material and again they are worth decent amount of money. Now my husband’s ex in laws are bombarding him with phone calls saying he’s a horrible dad. My (44M) wife (42F) and I have three kids. We hugged it out and I told her I’ll be here for her while she works through it all. After the second one she said she was done having kids even though we had discussed having three prior to marriage. This is weird virtue signaling on her part. Before he could open his mouth I said ‘so you can take your ex shopping for a kid that’s probably not even yours but not go with me’. It became worse after my mom and brother died, and then much worse ever since she became pregnant and my little sister was born. I also get why you don't want to go. They are expecting a fourth one. We both work full-time and have the kids in daycare during the summer until school starts up again. Our anniversary was a month ago and we found a nice, secluded cabin on AirBnB and rented it out for a long weekend getaway. Well we saw my mom the other day and my wife said she just wanted to let her know that she can't be in the delivery room. OP found out and decided to stay with her husband if Brittney agrees to give up the child. My wife is a grade A+ picky eater. So she doesn’t have to deal with wife #2. Trigger Warnings: racism, emotional abuse, physical abuse, child neglect, mention of Could be that she really is sorry, but doing a 180 on something like this and that OP says there seem to be different versions of his wife tells me she is most likely a narcissist. Turns out she was living in an entirely different state than I was told. See what his response is and go from there NTA AITA for telling my brother that it’s pathetic he can’t do the basic that his wife did. Yet another one where I wish I wasn't banned from aita, although my gut reaction to this post would likely have gotten me banned. I tried to cheer her up, but she was still a little sad. I and Sierra divorced last year because she used money from our joint account without asking me. Me and my ex husband divorced 4 years ago, we have two daughters together. I scoffed and said ‘I hope the kid isn’t yours’ then left. My son was arguing back, and insulted his sister in the process. To condense what was discussed without spilling any info in regards to the investigation, everyone was turning against eachother and our for blood, and secrets were finally spilling. The original poster is u/Specific-Papaya3577 on subreddit r/AITAH. She deserved to have that emotional reaction along, and not in front of her literally children. She'd refuse to eat certain meals and mom would take it personallywhich results in a series of arguments between them. See our ~~*Best Of*~~ "Most Controversial" at /r/AITAFiltered! ImportantHeron7650. I can't 100% say this is an affair but there is definitely some inconsistency and being wishy-washy here. See our ~~*Best Of*~~ "Most Controversial" at /r/AITAFiltered! Update- AITA for telling my wife she is neglecting our son? This update is for this post. Where we differ is within the company, I opted to go down the management route, and her down a more technical route. Edit: Hey guys, there’s an update to this. The girl can wait until someone finishes; she isn’t an elder or someone with a disability on the bus. AITA for telling my wife she either starts working or her adult kids pay rent? Not the A-hole. Let her know that she can always talk to you about how she is feeling. When we got to the car Ex noticed that our son was upset she continued to push the issue, saying that she was worried, and that he wouldn’t have a future if he kept this up. As I knew, everyone was basically aware that my Ex groomed him most likely starting at 16. Went to 16h work again but he argued I ignored him under oath. So my brother died recently of cancer and his funeral’s coming up, here’s the problem - he explicitly said that he did not want his ex wife of 18 years to come to his funeral and most of my family believes we should honor that. OOP is u/No_Bumblebee8165. My wife (38F) and I (39M) have been married for 8 years and have a 4-year-old son. Pete explained what happened to my ex-in-laws, that the version of events I posted was true, and went through the timeline/proof. Practical_Special365. ”. About 4 years, my ex wife opened up a online business and she’s been making 6 figures. He said "my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this "defect" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older Brad has 2 kids Tessa (f26) and Jake (m18) my dad passed away shortly after I was born leaving my mom in mountains of debt. Asshole. I get why your daughter wants to invite only you. ADVERTISING. Their mother and I agreed on a 50/50 custody arrangement after we split up and have stuck to it until this issue arose. AITA for telling my mother she shouldn't have brought her new baby and pregnancy at a family dinner after my wife miscarried? Telling my ex wife that her partner being at the school event tomorrow makes me uncomfortable and me not shaking his hand if he extends it out. He wrote: Jan 21, 2022 · In the Reddit post titled, "AITA for telling my ex to stop giving my daughter lunch money" under the "Am I The A**hole" forum, the anonymous poster known only as u/daughterlunch, AITA for telling my wife we can adopt her nephews but not her niece? My wife’s sister was recently found guilty of dealing to support her habit. The AP's Dad: he opened the floodgates. Not the A-hole. “AITA for telling my wife I'm moving, it is up to her if she is coming with me or not. The relevant rule here is her rule around chores. She has 3 children, 2 boys (4 and 5) and a girl (14). As a compromise this year, My wife offered to bring her own food to thanksgiving dinner. Some of the family chimed in and took my ex’s side. I (25M) will be marrying my fiancé G (25F) later on this year. We graduated from the same university with the same degree, and work for the same company. My husband’s ex wife is saying that I’m banning her from our home because she didn’t deserve that bigger space and that we were treating Coral unfairly. Wife has always enforced strict rules. I met my wife almost 2 years ago through some common friends. First of all, your boy is a child and doing a craft. I45m was married to my ex wife Kelly45 for 15 years. That action could make me the asshole cause I need to just get over everything, regardless of what’s happened to me. Honestly it’s a good deal but the problem is my wife has less than $500 saved so I’ll have to pay the entire $75,000. 3. Subreddit Announcements . Nobody sees the same person as she plays a different part in different scenarios so she can have the attention she needs in that instant. I simply can not give you what you seek. If you don’t want to read it all, the bottom line is we’re heading toward divorce. Dan argued and bitched and moaned until his Dad told him to leave. We have 2 sons who are 15 and 13, and a daughter who is now 18. He still blames it all on me and I’m pretty close to telling my kids the truth. I don’t think my wife should able to dictate my friendships. We live in a 3 bedroom new build home with a nice spacious garden. My wife asked her parents if they would be You absolutely should have told your ex before sending the kids home with that news. 2- the husband cheated on OP with Brittney and she got pregnant. She told me she would let me handle it and she didn't. When I met her she was heavily pregnant with her ex boyfriend's child but her ex wanted nothing to do with her and the kid and dumped her. Now this Friday it was his week with the girls, he called me and asked if I could please take them earlier. Also added spaces in one post to make it readable. r/AmItheAsshole. My ex-wife and I (51M) have 3 children together. We had been married for 4 years, together for a total of 9 years. Let's call them Josh (15M), Megan (14F), and Sharon (12F). AITA for not telling my ex wife that my fiancé is pregnant? My ex wife Carly (39F) and I (40M) got divorced 10 years ago. When she found out she was very upset and my nieces and nephews practically begged me to let her So she gets up, I don't, then she gets upset that I never give her a morning off when all she needs to do is just take the morning off when she wants and let the kids handle themselves. While arguing, I noticed that my daughter was not there, so I left to check on her. I had been completely against the idea of spending money on a For instance, if it was because you had an affair with you now-wife then it would make a lot of sense why your daughter wouldn't invite her and you would be the AH. And she ended up contacting me on FB after I gave the PI the go ahead for my contact info. Also she is super strict about screen time during the week and is exhausted and snappy from arguing about it with the kids and upset i don't support her strict My wife came to me crying. Back then, the doctors delivered my first with my ex in the waiting room ('77), the second one, ex was in the delivery room being pathetically indifferent. I have 3 further kids (f9, f7 f3). She started to cry and I told her that whatever she’s going through can be worked on and she can talk to someone who can help her sort out her feelings and give her some insight and she said she would work on herself. My wife's younger brother (Joe) and his GF are moving into an apartment together at the beginning of June. I thought I was in purgatory because my cheating ex told everyone I blindsided him and left him with nothing (so people would feel sorry for him and give him attention/stuff). She had an IUD but we still used condoms. This kind of stuff just teaches kids to invalidate their own needs and breeds toxic people pleasing. AITA for siding with my kid against my wife? Asshole. I proposed to her a little bit before Christmas and we’re aiming for a November wedding. I refused. In regards of a judgment here, I don't know if one really applies. AITA for telling my wife I won’t give her a ‘allowance’ every month. I helped her clean herself, and then we left for my house. Delivered and installed for him, went home, walked my jaundice son for hours with bottles so my wife could sleep. I told my wife she was a liar. I am 48 (f) and was married to my ex, Jim (49) for 20 years. You both will change over time. Help keep the sub engaging! Don’t downvote assholes! Based on your other comments: Your ex gives Emily $25 a week for lunch. I my mind there are 2 possible scenarios: 1- the husband had sex with Brittney with an oral agreement that she would give the baby to OP and husband. My parents moved down south a few years ago. My wife said I am just stating a boundary. Because of our history. When we married, my wife still had 50/50 custody of her kids and she wanted to move into my house. Edit: my mother loves Jackie because she’s known her forever. She apologized for everything and said she thought she was doing what was best for everybody. Alex and Stella moved across the country in 2021 after Stella earned a promotion at work, In 2022 Alex proposed, she said yes, and they set a wedding date for the end of September 2023. UPDATE: AITA for letting my estranged wife deal with her choices? So it's been a crazy almost 3 weeks. WTAF. You absolutely should have told your ex before sending the kids home with that news. I understand that disliking an ex isn’t AITA I refused to help my ex wife pay for a surgery. By my math $5 x 5 days of school per week = $25. So your ex is paying only enough for her school lunches. One bit of unsolicited advice. When her kids go NC with her, she can look at this moment as to why that happened. I UPDATE: After talking to the wife for a couple days, and providing her with info what I had, she simply messaged me last night "Thank you for telling me". We talked about it for a long time but I love her and I agreed to change our plans. AITA for telling my wife to return it all. She has two kids from her previous marriage Jason- 22M and Carla- 19F. Originally posted to r/TwoHotTakes and r/AITAH. (36f) live with my husband and child. AITA For telling my wife her parents are not allowed to ever watch our son again. Tell us about any non-violent conflict you have experienced; give us both sides of the story, and find out if you're right, or you're the asshole. When I got there Emma looked sick, like she hadn’t eaten for days. I've been married to my wife for 5 years. And we have two kids together (m12 and m10) I remarried a year late while she’s still single. The Ex just hung up. Emily works part-time. If she wanted to get rid of the rule then she could have said something instead of just barging into his room unannounced despite her own rule of knocking on doors. Okay, So this happened last night while me (M23) and my family were visiting my brother's (M30) girlfriend's (F30) house for the first time. I have my sons over every weekend. She immediately walked out to stay at her friend's house, where she is currently sulking. But it was frustrating and my mom got angry when I said I was going to reach out to my sister. My ex husband remarried 1 year ago, and I knew that he and his wife were excepting because my daughters told me that they would get a sibling. The “firm” tone got me. My wife and I have two kids (9,6). What a horrible, horrible woman. Lord knows how desperate she is, that she has to sleep with, have children with, and marry your ex husband and didn’t even have the decency to wait until you were done, to go licking off A catharsis for the frustrated moral philosopher in all of us, and a place to finally find out if you were wrong in an argument that's been bothering you. She left because I lost my leg. I said she was so close to getting the job, but was just a bit off. Op tell your parents that you can’t possibly trust your sister around your new husband because there’s no telling what she’d do to get another man. I said that he can't throw her the party when she's grounded and isn't allowed to leave the house for days. Link to the original: AITA for telling my bf it isn’t appropriate to come to the family vacation Hello everyone!I hope your… Mar 15, 2024 · Bronwyn Isaac. But based on context clues, my guess is that it’s sensory related. My mom threw the hand towel, grabbed her stuff and left. Take her on a fun vacation to break out of the routine. When she found out she was very upset and my nieces and nephews practically begged me to let her ADMIN MOD. Aita for leaving my wife over a computer? (Update) After about a week staying at her sisters house, Emma called me and asked if we could meet up. I hope you understand and wish you all the best in your life. More importantly, sending her the AITA as part of your apology was the literal worst possible way you could apologize. A catharsis for the frustrated moral philosopher in all of us, and a place to finally find out if you were wrong in an argument that's been bothering you. Conversation let from one thing to another then, I looked at my brother and asked him Keep your future men the h away from them. She doesn't like it when she hears people talk about my mom or brother and she has removed all traces of my mom and brother from the house (everywhere except my room). GlumMushroom9804. My husband wanted to get them a decent wedding gift and tried borrowing money from friends and neighbors but got turned down. My wife currently has no job since Befuddled_Boi. AITA for telling my ex that her kids were not my problem or my son's problem. Ex replies that I’m an AH, Shelly cares about our son, and that he should be allowed to bring his wife with him whenever he chooses. He looked shocked and said ‘I didn’t go anywhere with her after the scan, I needed socks and some other bits’. The one thing she refused to sell was her wedding dress. My wife and I have been married for 6 years and have 2 kids under 5. My wife walked in on something completely innocent. Like she broke her own rule. Maybe low contract for everyone is what’s best for now . I told him what happened and he said that he'll throw her the bday party since I cancelled. First of all I want to say thank you for all My wife immediately screamed at her "shut the fuck up and let me eat or leave". You will both go through tough stretches. Oct 1, 2023 · – Listen to AITA For Breaking Up With My GF After She Rejected My Proposal TWICE & I Wasn't At My Dad's Wedding by Comfort Level Podcast instantly on your tablet, phone or browser - no downloads needed. 5 years ago, and from the get go she seemed to politely dislike me, idk why, oh well c'est la vie. She uses her own money to add to this to get lunches from restaurants. My mom looked at her like she was dumb and was like why would I be in the room. My ex and her cousins even had trouble dating because the family wanted their SOs to be around constantly would disown them for missing one birthday or cookout. AITA for telling my wife it's her fault she didn't have fun in our wedding? Not enough info. Goodbye, OP. AITAH for telling my gf that my ex wife was “tighter”? I (m39) hate it when people mKe fun of others. The third, my ex and sis were in the room--sis was an RN, but you could tell she'd not had any babies (not that I'm without appreciation for her being there, but a cool cloth was NOT what I Alex started dating Stella (35F), a lovely girl, around 4. The more you grow together the stronger your marriage becomes. However, his current wife (34F) said Pete did tell me that Dan made it clear he wouldn't break up with Sophie under any circumstances, even if it meant he wouldn't be able to see his kids. She spent it on a boob job because she felt like her boobs had become "ugly" after pregnancy and breastfeeding. My wife and I have a 2-year old son and have been married for 4 years. Was I the asshole for telling my wife she should go back to work after 5 years of not working and forcing me to work so many extra shifts just to keep up with expenses and our retirements, and lashing out after she used the same lines and gets defensive whenever this topic comes about. We also don’t know if OOP’s mom/family has accommodated the wife in the past (or if they’re purposefully unaccommodating). In a popular post on the AITA subreddit, a man asked if he was wrong for telling his ex he refuses to help support her new kids. Like nope. By then, the party was already tense. She was 4 when we met, she's 13 now. She was in our backyard. We went to fertility doctors after the first year No A-holes here. This 100%. I can’t believe she’s made it this long. She was furious with our divorce because I was apparently throwing away my marriage for another woman. No A-holes here. I may have went too far with the comment but really this is sad that he can’t clean a house. fallwarfare. Yup. So I told my ex that if he loves his son and wants to continue having a positive relationship with him, then he needs to respect his wishes and leave his wife at home. In the midst of our grief, we found comfort in each other's presence and shared memories. It's a gorgeous simple white dress with a long lace veil. We’ve used up our savings and currently are living off our credit cards but I’ve got a job I've told my husband and his ex-wife if they want their son to be homeschooled either she needs to come round while i'm working or they hire a tutor which i'd help pay for. We have 3 kids 22f, 20m, 18m, and have been divorced for 5 years. People like OPs husband and his ex wife need to get it through their skulls that work from home means that OP is working, that she's on company time so no, she doesn't have time to tutor her stepson while working. Then there’s the yearly $6,500 in property tax which I will have to pay for myself. My ex Tammy-Lynn tried to get me to give up custody of my son so that her new husband could adopt him and they could have a family that did not involve me. I was so hurt by the both of them. You say school lunches are $5. It was a huge deal for the family. AITA for telling my ex wife “not everyone is a self centered b*ch like you. 2. I (39F) have been divorced from my ex-husband (41M) for 9 years. I called my parents to help me find a PI to locate my ex. AITA for telling my ex that his children are not my problem. We were all sitting at dinner table and I remembered when my brother's girlfriend, who's a widow, saying that she keeps an urn of her late husband's ashes in the house. My husband got married to his new wife and they have 3 kids in total (9m, 5m, 5f). Unfortunately, this is not a great update. Bringing you back into my life would introduce complications I am not willing to face for my own good and that of my family. Notthebabydad. Editor's Note: OOP has posted the same stories to two different subs. I want no further contact. AITA for telling my MIL I’ll pay for my wedding myself if she can’t respect my few wishes. I want to thank everyone who said go talk to my parents. You can tell the judge that your wife has no income and no desire to work and as such she cannot afford to give your children any kind of stability or decent life. Instead she made my mom leave. She's every bit my granddaughter. Apologise to her, pull your head in, and stop telling women that they are "too emotional" when in fact you're the one failing to control your emotions in any way. MOD. Recently, my ex-husband (35M) and I (33F) experienced the devastating loss of our son. We're family as family can get. My daughter We (M, ex, and I) got into an argument, and to my surprise, my ex-husband was on my side, saying that it was not okay. Her head whipped up and she asked what I meant by that. It's bothersome to a certain degree but on holidays basically the shitshow begins. Original - 13 June 2023. Wide-Suggestion-6647. I found this out when her parents invited me over to their house. We have two children together, ages 16, and 10. My mom just continued looking confused, and my mom's husband started laughing. My wife (38f) and I (37M) have been married for 12 years and have 3 kids (10, 8, & 5). NTA! You're wife is a flaming asshole! I'm sorry that she has cancer, but what she did to your daughter was very abusive! If she is unable to deal mentally with her disease and treatment, then she needs professional help, not to manipulate and coerce your daughter into making a choice that she didn't want to make. End of story. I was the main provider, and we 1273rockefeler. Advice Needed. Update: AITA for not wanting my wife to do surrogacy? I’ve been reading the comments on my first post for the last several days, and I’m feeling a mix of emotions from them. In fact I tell everyone the best part of them getting together is that I" got a built-in granddaughter out of the deal. I would tell the ex by text or email how lily feels and about any changes Lilly wants to make to access with her dad. My pregnant wife (26f) and I (35m)are really struggling at the moment as I lost my job and my wife had to quit her job as she’s suffering from hyperemesis gravidarum. Aita for leaving my wife over a computer? (Update 2) So Emma was cheating on me. Sarah is the jealous type. My BIL has been with then gilfriend for 10 years and they recently got married. My ex's family was like this and they basically alienated themselves from the rest of the world. Everyone Sucks. etc. But I said she did that there was nothing unfair about the situation. I'll admit I have a lot of dislike for my ex-wife and that in this situation I might be a big AH because she is the mother of my children and her family is their family, regardless of them not being close. Both my wife (f31) and I (m32) work in the tech industry. AITA for correcting my ex's new wife? Not the A-hole. I agreed and we met at a park. We went to fertility doctors after the first year Thanks to everyone who commented on my original post. We have 2 kids (12m, 9F). Help keep the sub engaging! Don’t downvote assholes! Do upvote interesting posts! Click Here For Our Rules and Click Here For Our FAQ. AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house? Its also super unhealthy to constantly be around the same people, especially family. hp ai cd wi ad qk ri in hh gg